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By 2003 develop and, by 2005, implement national
policies and strategies to build and strengthen governmental, family and community capacities to provide a supportive environment
for orphans and girls and boys infected and affected by HIV/AIDS, including by providing appropriate counseling and psychosocial
support, ensuring their enrolment in school and access to shelter, good nutrition and health and social services on an equal
basis with other children; and protect orphans and vulnerable children from all forms of abuse, violence, explanation, discrimination,
trafficking and loss of inheritance.
Living today are an estimated 14 million children who have lost one or both parents
due to AIDS. Approximately 80% of these children-11 million-live in sub-Saharan Africa.
However, the orphan crisis
is not restricted to that region.
As the number of adults dying of AIDS rises over the next decade, increasing numbers
of orphans will grow up without parental care and love, and be deprived of their basic rights to shelter, food, health and
education. In the world, huge numbers of children have lost at least one parent to AIDS. Sadly orphans numbers will increase
as the epidemic matures. Forecasts indicate that the number of children orphaned by AIDS will rise dramatically in the next
10-20 years, especially in southern Africa. In countries where epidemics are relatively new but growing rapidly, the impact
of large numbers of orphans has yet to be felt. But the future cannot be ignored, and preparations must be made now.
Programmes
should not single out children orphaned by AIDS, since targeting specific categories of children can result in increased stigmatization
and discrimination. However, to be orphaned by AIDS does create unique circumstances, not least because these children are
more likely than other orphans to lose both parents, often in relatively quick succession. (Once one parent has acquired HIV,
the other is highly likely to also become infected.) Very young children orphaned by AIDS may have acquired AIDS themselves,
and children orphaned by AIDS are more likely than other orphans to encounter stigma and ostracism. The vulnerability of children
orphaned by AIDS and that of their family starts well before the death of a parent. The emotional anguish of the children
begins with their parents distress and progressive illness. This is compounded as the disease causes drastic changes in family
structure, taking a heavy economic toll, requiring children to become caretakers and breadwinners, and fueling conflict as
a result of stigma, blame and rejection. Eventually, the children suffer the death of their parent(s), and the emotional trauma
involved. They then have to adjust to a new situation, with little or no support, or they may suffer exploitation and abuse.
As AIDS tears at the family fabric, assisting ill parents to live longer by providing appropriate medicine, food and
care at home is one of the best ways to benefit children, particularly as many parents die of opportunistic infections that
are treatable with inexpensive drugs. Home-based care for people living with HIV/AIDS is a means of addressing not only the
health of those who are ill, but also the economic and psychosocial needs of their children.
Recent findings show
that orphans who have lost both parents are even more likely to drop out of school and to be drafted into child labour than
children who have lost one parent. Since the family is likely to have become more impoverished before the death of the parents,
the children are often left destitute one their parents are gone. A situation analysis of children orphaned by AIDS showed
that family structures (which have proved capable of coping with many social and economic strains over the years) are facing
serious problems with AIDS. Families find it harder to assign substitute parents to children orphaned by AIDS than to children
orphaned by other causes, and to cover the costs of their education and upkeep. In addition, the children are less inclined
to conditions.
Moreover, the ability to stay in school-so crucial to a childs future-suffers significantly when a
child loses one or both parents. In the late 1990s, a survey of 646 orphaned and 1239 non-orphans. Among the orphaned children,
56% of girls and 47% of boys had dropped out of school within 12 months of a parents death. Girls often drop out of school
because they assume the responsibility for caring for parents who are ill, or because they must look after household duties
in the parents stead, including that of caring for younger siblings. Other children leave school because they are discriminated
against, are psychologically distraught, or cannot pay the school fees.
Many children appear to be slipped through
social safety nets entirely, ending up in households with no resident adult, or as children might come to constitute a lost
generation of young people who have been marginalized and excluded for much of their lives.
The best solutions are
close to home
In order to counter the stigma often direct at children orphaned by AIDS, efforts should address the
needs of all vulnerable children in a community affected by the epidemic. Areas made vulnerable by HIV/AIDS can and should
be targeted but, within these communities, residents and local government should provide assistance to the most vulnerable
children and house holds, regardless of the specific causes of vulnerability. Experience shows that successful programmes
are those that focused, and respect and protect the rights of the child.
Growing up in communities disrupted by the
epidemic orphans are more likely to cope if they can live in surroundings that are as familiar, stable and nurturing as possible.
The sensus is that orphans should be cared for in family units through extended family networks, foster families or adoption.
At the very least, siblings should not be separated, and children should remain in, or close to, their communities. Even child-headed
households be viable, although hardly ideal, options if given enough community and state support.
While Africa is
still in the early stages of its orphan crisis, many children and many communities are coping, and their resilience and fortitude
should not be underestimated. Millions of orphans have already been absorbed into extended family networks, even in the poorest
communities. Formal and informal fostering arrangements are also common in some countries. Indeed, many societies in Africa
have retained the structures and ethos of community-based orphan care-traditions that have helped them cope with previous
calamities.
On the other hand, formal institutions, such as orphanages, have proved to be a tiny and inadequate part
of a response. The financial costs of maintaining outstrip that of other forms of care, making orphanages an unsustainable
option. Furthermore, such institutions often leave children without the social and cultural skills they need to function successfully
as adults. However, orphanages can be a last resort, either with no other alternative as a temporary solution, or one for
children with no other alternatives. Where orphanage do operate, there should be proper registration of children and monitoring
of standards of care.
Supporting extended families and affected communities
The extended family can only serve
as part of the solution to the mass orphanhood if adequately supported by the State, the private sector and the surrounding
community. This need for support is desperate in the worst-hit regions where the capacities of families are being eroded by
economic decline and dependents in a recent study of AIDS affected household needs following the death of a mother.
But
it is also clear that families are willing to take in an orphan if support is made available. Support to orphans and other
disadvantaged children is a State obligation under the Convention on the Rights of the Child. Such support can take many forms
: free health care and education (or supplements, enhanced access to microcredit and other forms of financial support.
A
part of the solution.
Empowering affected children first of all means regarding them as active participants, rather
than the mere victims. Many children already function as heads of households and a caregivers. They are a vital part of the
solution and should be supported in planning and carrying out efforts to mitigate the impact of HIV/AIDS in their families
and communities. For instance, the community-based organizations which help orphans not only gain skills but also utilize
such skills in order to empower themselves for the future.
Children in households with ill parents should also participate
in decision making regarding their future foster care. This is crucial for succession planning, which helps parents (who know
they are HIV-positive ) prepare for the future and provide their children with the necessary care and support. So-called memory
books offer valuable psychological benefits; usually containing important are often jointly created by parents and children.
Much can be done to ensure the legal and human rights of orphans and vulnerable children. Many communities are now
writing wills to protect the inheritance rights of women and children. Emphasis should be put on the children affected by
HIV/AIDS, with special emphasis on psychosocial support. Many of the children have poor life skills and exhibit psychosomatic
disturbances, depression, very low self-esteem, disturbed social behavior and hopelessness.
The experiences of these
children confirm that the death of a parent (or, worse still, both parents, as is often the case with AIDS) causes severe
trauma and can stunt childrens development.
However, the resilience and coping capacity of these children can be enhanced
with relatively simple, direct and culturally appropriate psychosocial support.
More generally, it is communities
that are at the forefront of creating the scores of orphan-care programmes to ensure that vulnerable children have access
to care and support. Most of these projects and programmes exist thanks to the efforts of womens groups, church-based groups
and non government organizations.
The Challenge ahead
The challenge of dealing with the rising numbers of
orphans and vulnerable children (e.g providing care to their HIV-positive parents) is beginning to be addressed on a wide
scale. Such initiatives must be carefully executed, with maximum regard for the best interests of the children and families
concerned as well as for the needs of society.
To generate the rights of orphans and vulnerable children the following
should be emphasized.
- Strengthen protection, care and coping capacities within extended families and communities.
- Build the capacity of children to meet their own needs;
- Reduce stigma and discrimination.
Caring
and coping interventions for children and communities must take into account the long-term nature of AIDS-related problems
and impacts. Millions of children have already lost at least one parent to the epidemic, and millions more will do so in the
years to come. The challenge is to protect their rights ad enable them to realize their potential.
Source:
UNAIDS 2003
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